You are a mess. You’ve lost the love of your life – the woman of your dreams. What was once “my girlfriend” is now an ex girlfriend. You’re obsessed with: “How can I get her back”. There are no guarantees, but the following ideas may help get her back.

1. First – take a look in the mirror. What did you do to bring on this rejection? Were you faithful to her, sensitive to her needs, able to take care of her, and an interesting guy to be with? Make sure you are capable of being the right kind of person for her before you attempt getting her back.

2. Pleading with her or playing on her sympathy will definitely not work in the long run. She might take you back out of some motherly concern, but the same problems will crop up again.

3. Definitely, after you’ve given her some time to re-assess, attempt to meet with her on a casual basis to “talk over things”. Choose a relaxing, cozy restaurant – perhaps one that brings back memories of the two of you together.

4. Be sure and apologize early, if you are responsible for some of the relationship problems. Then you can launch in on why you think you should get back together.

5. A good idea is to bring up that you both have invested a lot of time with each other, so you’d hate to throw that away. All couples have problems to resolve so why shouldn’t you, as a couple, just look at this as a problem you just have to work out together.

6. If you have someone that’s close to you both that would agree to talk with her about this it will serve two purposes. First, it may give her the nudge she needs to reconsider. Second, your friend may be able to see her natural reaction to getting back with you. After this side meeting with your common friend, you’ll have much more to go on as to whether you should abandon or crank up your effort to get her back.

7. After you initial meeting with her, attempt to meet, date, or otherwise spend time with her to slowly build up her trust again. Take it slowly, based on what she wants.

8. Mostly, be a good listener.

Whether you succeed or not, at least you’ve done your best. A positive way to think of this is that you’re not just crawling back to her – you’re giving her an opportunity to be with you.

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